cheesy

Before I finally move on and just forget the last guy i sort of hang out with, let me do some reminiscing. No more drama! People come and go. Let’s do this for cheesy purposes, alright?

Background: This guy is indeed one of the best when it comes to delivering bola lines. If you are looking for somebody who is convincingly good at lip service, then you must be envious of me now. I am so gullible and I usually believe what people around me say. So can you just imagine how blissful I was when he delivered such lines? Saying them and actually meaning them is another matter. But hey, a bola line is still a bola line, right?

Some lines from him:



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We were in a bar. I was sort of teasing him since there were a lot of flirty girls around. And by flirty I mean those who would simply grab random guys and dirty dance with them.

Me: Come on, you don’t have to be shy. Choose a girl and dance with her.

Him: That’s why you’re here.

--- Haha! And it worked. We’ve been dancing whole night long.


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I was uttering senseless and incoherent statements since he was confronting me about feelings and shit and stuff.

Me: I must be the most vague amongst the flings that you have had.

Him: I don’t know. I am not really into flings.

--- And would you curse me if I say I believed him? Wehe, for a moment I did.


***
We were in a bar full of people. We could bare move. It was really jampacked and people kept on bumping into each other.

Him: Don’t worry sweetheart, I’ll protect you.

--- I felt safe all night.


***
He just came from his Shanghai Trip for four days. We were regularly seeing then. To be missing each other four days, we really couldn’t contain our excitement. But I saw him past midnight and I was too exhausted to show elation.

Him: You know what’s the problem with you?

Me: What?

Him: You’re so beautiful (Naks, thanks to the gym’s hairdryer)

Me: Ah ok, thanks.

Him: Say, what would you do if I kiss your right here right now? (We were in the same bar)

Me: I’d slap you.

Him: I don't care. I can take the slap.

--- He didn’t. That made me like him even more.


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And ultimately, the cheesiest yet the most effective:

while we were having a yosi break on a bench:

me: ...blah blah... i hate shopping. i was never the shopping type of girl..

him: ok, please stop talking (as in panicky mood). im serious, you need to stop.

me: ok, ill stop. but may i know why?

him: bec i may fall in love with you.

me: ...

him: ok, you continue talking now.

me: why?

him: bec i want to fall in love with you.

--- Nyiiii… ;) I used up a 100 dollar worth of prepaid card in an hour just bragging about this moment to my friends in pinas.



If you want to ask where he is now, he is miles away. He’s got lots of jerk moments too but I’ll focus on the fun side of the times we spent together. So what if he vanished? He’s still a tiny tinge of my youth days. And I believe more exciting experiences are on their way.

No to bitterness! So what if you stumble and choose the wrong person? Just get up and move on. There are a lot of other things to do than wallow into something that was never meant to last anyway.

PS: I am not a player. I am just overwhelmed with positive vibes right now that I want to let go of some grudges I’ve been keeping. And I intend to keep it this way.

Peace of mind is really priceless.